MATT NICHOLSON'S BREAST PUNISHMENT PRIMER - Part 8
Tit and Nipple Biting, Breast Torture Safety
Discusses breast and nipple biting and tit torture safety
(Continued from Breast Punishment Primer - Part 7)
Saving the Best for Last
For those of you that haven't read my Webmaster's Ramblings and already know of my own secret addiction, this next section will come as no surprise. For those of you that haven't, well...
My name's Matt, and I'm a breast biter.
True, I like other types of tit torture - they are tits after all - but my addiction involves teeth and nipples. If I were a vampire, necks would become passé. There aren't any major arteries in nipples, so I'd have to chew and suck for quite a while to get dinner - but that's a bad thing? Maybe it's because I was bottle fed, or maybe I have an Oedipus complex because I was breast fed too long. Heck, I need a driver's license to remember my name some mornings; there's no way I can remember that far back.
Whatever the latent childhood trauma involved, serving up breasts and nipples with a dessert topping is a form of torture enjoyed by many women and their partners, men and women alike. The fact is, I'm not at all alone in my addiction to chewing, I've even written a series of recipes based on requests.
Looking at it logically, teeth are nothing more than nipple clamps with a lot more muscle and a brain backing them up. You can adjust the pressure plus or minus at the slightest moan, squeal or squirm, and with the addition of some strategic lip and tongue action can drive both your hapless victim and yourself to the brink of orgasmic bliss simply by chomping at the right time, which makes nipple and breast biting a great way of controlling your partner during a good hard missionary-style fuck. Even The Joy of Sex (Yeah, I'm that old, what of it?) suggests pretending that her nipples are grapes that you can bite, as long as you don't break the skin. Who am I to argue? That does bring up the only real concern about nipple nibbling, though, and that would be bruising or popping the grape as it were. Bruises heal, and there are
likely to be lots of them if you engage in most of the things I've discussed. Hickies are bruises, after all, and we don't worry much about them.Breaking the skin is another story, though, and as much as it's a really incredible fantasy, it should probably be avoided by anyone that wants to the opportunity to nibble or gnaw again in the future. Even for those folks with the sharpest of teeth, it takes some effort to bite through living skin, and typically involves some heavy grinding. Even if both parties find this a unique means of getting the endorphin count to skyrocket, the resulting jagged laceration will likely present several problems.
First, as I mentioned when I talked about knives, jagged cuts tend to scar and don't heal cleanly.
Second, the human mouth is one really dirty hiding place for germs, many of which probably don't have proper names, and introducing these into a bite will result in a need for antibiotics, for sure.
My suggestion would be to take advantage of the minty fresh breath of Scope or Listerine, or some other germ killing mouthwash if you're planning on putting your teeth to work.
Finally, there have been quite a few documented stories of severed nipples during the throes of a passionate love bite. Despite our vampiric fantasies, reality suggests that we might want to retain our partner's nipples for another go. Biting one off could prove detrimental to that goal.
On a related note, there are other sharp body parts that can be used very effectively against a pair of unsuspecting, or very suspecting, breasts. Fingernails. Women have the upper hand, as it were, with the use of fingernails, but that doesn't mean us guys can't deliver a wicked pinch if we want. Combine the arm-around-the-shoulders hand-drape-to-the-left-breast technique with the basic right-breast-nipplesucking technique and a bit of strategic between-the-leg clit rubbing, add a quick nip with a simultaneous pinch, and you have one screaming orgasm. Just keep the same warnings in mind as I mentioned about teeth. Fingernails can be just as nasty in the germ category.
Now, go and chew!
! - I pretty much covered it. Bruises, germs, and missing nipples. One other thing, though. Don't forget that body fluids and microscopic things go both ways. I didn't talk about milk producing titties, but if you happen to be indulging in a pair of them, make sure you know your partner. It's been proven that breast milk can carry the AIDS virus. Don't be an adult victim of the AIDS baby syndrome.
The Fat Lady SingsNo, this isn't a section on how to torture a big beautiful woman's 46DDDs, it's the end of the show. I know you wanted it to go on and on (and on and on), but I've got a website to produce, after all.
Despite what you may see in the fantasy worlds of Darker Pleasures or other sites, in real-life the bottom line to all this is simple. Be careful and have fun. Like the saying says, "Safe, sane, consensual."
"Safe" means erring on the side of caution and testing what you plan on doing in advance, on body parts or objects more inclined toward tolerating your sadistic or masochistic urges. Spank her little round ass with the cat-o-nine tails first, so she can get a grip on what her tits are in for. Test the wax on your own inner wrist and then on the outer portions of her boobs before aiming for the bull's eye. Let the tickling sensation of the electrical do-gadget caress your fingertips before you flip the switch on her breasts. You get the idea.
There should also be an understanding that the lovely sub should have access to a safe word (or a safe signal if she's gagged) that would guarantee that Mr. or Ms. Dom will stop dead in his or her tracks, the second the word is worded or the signal is signed.
"Sane" should be self-explanatory, but given some of the wild requests I've had, I'm not going to take anything for granted. I joke about the golden railroad spike of joy, but that's all it is - a joke. They're made to enjoy, even if enjoyment runs to the rough side, not to eat, lacerate, burn, crush, or otherwise mutilate. Squicking on me, are you? Well, I'd rather you squick now than regret it later, and so will you.
"Consensual" doesn't mean that it needs to be typed by an attorney and notarized, but both people need to be on board, at least in some generally informed sort of way, with who does what to whom on their whatever. Keep in mind that doing anything to someone else's body without their informed consent is typically regarded as "assault" in fifty out of fifty U.S. states and most other countries. Unless you prefer that your daywear be predominantly flourescent orange or horizontally striped in black and white, everyone needs to be pleased with the result.
Darker Pleasures has many stories that skirt the boundaries of what I've discussed, others that step over them, and a couple that shatter them fairly soundly. All of these stories, however, are purely fantasy, written solely for the enjoyment of our members, and all of our pictures are photographed with a firm understanding and adherence to everything I've typed about at great length on these five html pages.
We all agree that breasts are wonderful things, or we wouldn't be webmasters, writers, members, or visitors to a site that specializes in torturing them. Finding someone with a nice rack that'll share them with you like this isn't an easy thing to do. When you find someone that will submit her boobs to your loving care, treat her well, rough in places when time and circumstances permit, but well.
If you're the one submitting the precious pair, thanks! Regardless of the reason that you're donating them to the cause, we tit tormentors salute you for your service to mankind!
If I missed a particular type of torment that you'd like to see pasted on these pages, drop me a line. On a similar note, if you believe I've misrepresented something, or you need clarification, drop a line as well. Although it's been a tongue-in-cheek romp through the pages of breast bondage and tit torture, it's been meant to help, and I'll be happy to entertain thoughts and comments.
Finally, this stuff didn't just come to me through divine intervention. I read - a lot. That said, I've included several links to sites that have been most helpful in my travels. Don't just take my word for it. I'm just good, not perfect. Check 'em out.
In the mean time, enjoy!
~Matt Nicholson~
Webmaster - Darker Pleasures
www.darkerpleasures.com
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